Many things are not related, human just wanna connect them.

Quite some time back, I wrote "The Sequence is Not Important". The sequence is not important, the end results are or is it? as the end result has been pre-determined, thus the sequence is not important.

Recently, I saw another trend. Most or many things that happened are not related, we liked to connect them and give them a reasoning. Is that to comfort ourself?

e.g. We need to work to prove that we are useful to society. Err. I think I work for that $$$. 

Look at it another way. If you are not working, are you a society pest? Almost all my frens thought that we cannot don't work.  If not, we are wasting our lives. If not, we will become senile. If not, we no longer have relevant skills when we wanted to go back to workforce.

Ask yourself these questions:

- Why do I need to work? 

- Does working hard relates to job promotions? 

- Is the most hardworking and smartest guy also the richest guy? 

- Do I really work for a higher purpose or just for $$$? 

Take our basic 3 meals, we term it as breakfast, lunch and dinner. Do we really need to eat 3 meals or 4 meals (with supper) daily? Breakfast was mentioned by my parents that it is a must daily. We have been 'brain-tuned' that eating 3 meals a day is a must for us to stay healthy, is that really so? Breakfast, lunch and dinner are just food terms explained in different times of the day. There is not real connection that having a good breakfast means that you are eating and living well. I think we should eat when needed. Sometimes, a meal is enough for a day. Sometimes, 4 meals a day. There is absolutely nothing wrong, eat when necessary is more important. 

Likewise, another taboo topic that I am bringing up: Marriage. Does marriage lead to having kids? Marriage has nothing to do with kids. Though I advocate that if you want kids, get married. Else stay single throughout even if you are in love. I guess we are taught since young that we need to get married and have kids. We need to pass down our lineage. We need to prove to our partner that we love them. And marriage must be of the opposite sex (could be change soon). Marriage is the term coined by human to spend our money on honeymoon, wedding dinner, wedding photos, wedding gowns and to buy HDB, etc. Do we not love our partner if we don't get married? 90% of the money spent on marriage are better kept at other investment that gives you good return for an earlier financial freedom. 

Let's not pass any <negative> comments whenever someone is at fault or you think he/she is at fault. He/she is not answerable to you. You can get all info from Google!

So the next time if you think you are at fault or another party is at fault, think again.