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Demand vs request

A relationship requires the joint effort of two parties to maintain... Where is the trust if u need to constantly check on each other? At some point of the day, we need personal time, some required lesser time, some more. It doesnt mean that they need to do something... I will just sit and do some soul searching... You can call it daydream... Read this book recently, 5love languages... Every relationship whether it is with family, friends, couple should come with request, not demand... When u make a request, u give respect and confidence to other parties... When u make a demand out of the relationship, the other party's love jar is always empty.... No one likes to be commanded even between boss and staff... Practice making requests, and you can see yourself being happy when others are happy...

Lightning does strike twice...

A Suzuki 'kissed' the bumper of my car on Monday... Luckily, everyone was safe... Took some compensation and settled... I jammed brake cos the taxi in front did so... I avoided the accident but was not so lucky from the car behind... This morning, Wednesday.... While i was at a red light, stationary for sometime and i felt a bump... This time round, Honda 'kissed' the bumper...  I should have gotten a 'kissed my butt' sticker for my car.... Was i lucky or unlucky? I hope it is not gonna be three in a row, 'turkey'! Good news is that no one was hurt... Thanks Buddha.