understand your soulz

i think this is an old joke but it's still lingering in my mind and i thot of sharing... what phase of courtship are you in now? in courtship - you addressed your partner as 'Dear' nearing or first few years of marriage - you called him/her 'Honey/Darling' after the first child - 'Mummy / Daddy' thereafter 'Ooi' !!! where are you now? do not take your partner for granted even after years of marriage. there are always things in life that both can do together to spice up the romance even after kids. i know of my fren's parents who set aside specifically a day in a week to 'paht tor' (translated as 'dating').

last sunday was really tiring (it's only yesterday...:P)... we (my wife and I) were holding our second girl's full month celebration cum housewarming for relatives. the multipurpose hall at my place was quite huge and packed with frens and relatives... it's accomodating around 100 pax...too bad that seats were limited (first com first served)... i booked the karaoke room of my condo...relatively good but i practically had no time for a song. food was from Eatzi Gourmet (buffett catering from Jack's Place) and Obolo (mini pastries).... food from caterer was generally good, the beef, fried fish and gyoza were snapped up in no time... luckily i managed to eat a few *phew* . the prawns were almost untouched...probably due to the 'Indian spice' smell and the need to de-shell. Obolo pastries were great (from hearsay and my frens)...i missed out on that! my wife and i wished that we could 'split' into many selfs and entertain all our frens and relatives at the

this is a specially taken plus edited photograph that is sent to fren's for Zhirui's baby shower (aka full month celebrations)...software is so advanced nowsadayand thanks to Picasa2 from Google (for letting me organize and edit all my photos easily and FOR FREE!). Of course, the lead in the photo has to be photogenic for well-taken photo.... :P

what's durian if you cannot smell it from afar? recent papers explained that Thai researchers have managed to make the smell of durian to be mild like banana (my sister gonna hate it)... without the distinct smell of durian, King of Fruits title is gone...banana might take over...hahaha. pay someone to get rid of the smell of durian from the LAND OF DURIANS...it is like paying someone to research on how to get rid of the stench from smelly Tofu in HK and Taiwan... they might ask well get these researchers to work on making the rubbish dump smells nice. eat your durians while they still smell! LONG LIVE THE KING....of fruits!

for more pictures on my baby girl, 芝瑞 (zhi1 rui4).... please visit http://soulz007.multiply.com/photos/album/1 this is the easiest place to do a mass upload. i am not sure when i am taking this album out.