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flung off like a soft toy.... life...

witnessing a car accident first hand is no joking matter. it happened along East Coast Service Road near Parkland Green @ 21 Jun 2015 330pm. a black car with its hazard lights on, dad dropped his kid (10plus year old boy) along that stretch of road. .. I was driving behind this car in front in the opposite direction. the car in front was probably at 40kph... i dont think i will have the time to react when that boy dashed out from the back of his dad's car... he was probably heading to Parkland Green for an event in the open field area... the next moment (1-2 seconds) lasted slow-mo... i could literally see him flew back towards the back of his dad's car like a soft toy thrown off a window... his water bottle left his hand... all in a matter of seconds but lasted like a minute... my heart stopped the beat... my 'queen' quickly called ambulance (they didnt knew Parkland Green)... thank Buddha that he was conscious ... in order not to create traffic jam along that s

Passing of a gamer

Neilson Sim , used to be with our group of gamers (since 1990).... we were crazy backed during our sec and poly days... console gaming hangout at Super Mario (City Plaza), arcade gaming at Wywy (Marina Sq), movie at Shaw Lido, disco at Hard Rock Cafe... this 'routine' lasted a few years before we get enrolled into NS or settled down with family... those were the days, till now, we kept in contact once a year and our group would gather for dinner... with whatsapp, keeping in contact. becomes easier.  Wenzhong (or Lao Gao - Monkey in Hokkien) passed on 4 Jun 2015 in a freak car accident... apparently, his wife survived...  Its really fated that I came to know this accident when i visited his FB since his bday fell on 12 Jun... deja vu... we had not kept in contact for almost 2 years plus since he started to borrow $$ from our group... we tried to message and call him but no pick up...  he said he will be in Vietnam for work but we saw photos of him in Singapore and Austr

Adults are fakes

Adults are pretentious. We try to be both the devil and God. When young, we are taught to express our love and feelings... But when old? We hide behind for various reasons. When young, we are taught that breaking the law, even jaywalking is wrong.... When old? We do it as long as we don't get caught. When young, we are told that smoking and drinking alcohol is bad... When old? We said we only live once. When young, we are to pursue our dreams... As the kids grew older, we tell them that it is impractical... How fake can we be as we grow older? You could say that it is being responsible and mature with thinking as we aged. Does it mean that our parents' and school's teachings are just simply incorrect? Feel your soul and heart... Be truthful... You answer to yourself.

T.I.M.E that we can decide

The mightiest 'being', TIME.... We can manage our time but we cannot stop it from moving forward...  When time freezes, everything freezes.... It is destruction and reproduction... The only constant and indestructible 'being' is TIME... Not even the earth... We define speed by time, we need time to heal, to nurture... We think we broke record by beating time... Ironically, time kept on... This comic 'Sprite' said that Time flows differently for every human being...  So when everyone is busy, we are just racing against time. Let Time be secondary and you are on your pace.