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Split personalities are because of our different roles?

There are roles in the society that we played, e.g. Worker, boss, son, father, husband, associate, colleague, best fren, casual fren, lover, etc. With these amount of roles, can you still be the same single person that u think u are?  Unconsciously, we might portray different personalities for these different roles.  At least from what i know, each of us has at least 3 personalities.... One that u are born with. One that u think u are. One that others thought of you as... So if u are telling me that u have only one personality, u know u are lying.  Ironically, as we are trying to be truthful and honest to others, sometimes it will hurt many other parties... Therefore we chose the most rational way even though it is not what we wanted. Whichever role and personality that we took on, please pay it forward... I still believe in KARMA. Unless we are ready to devoid all our feelings and attachments to the rest of the world and people, we can never be the single, simple-minded and carefree b

Never expected celebration for my girl,..

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ZR's 7th bday was simple on actual day. It was a blessing for me as i was supposed to be on night job but cancelled at last minute... Enjoy the day, 小妹!

Quotes that I earnestly follow... Only more, not less to come...

Money spent is knowledge, money kept is inheritance. In order to cheer yourself up, cheer someone up. Let no one ever come to you without leaving better. The world is not unfair, you have a choice. Be happy. When you are poor, spent on your friends. When you are well-off, treat your close ones better. A true friend will tell you off. A good friend just party. “When the Last Tree Is Cut Down, the Last Fish Eaten, and the Last Stream Poisoned, You Will Realize That You Cannot Eat Money.”

Follow your heart....

Quoted off my old shirt from East India Company -> "Break the rules... Listen to your heart... Be spontaneous... The world is out there and anything... Anything... Can happen for you..." This is a gift...

Sharing TIME

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http://youtu.be/JhPvGdpHxuc This Chinese song is especially meaningful for parent/child relationship with time. Lyrics of this song... http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/singapore-showbiz/singapore-deejays-18-minute-film-150-125432126.html This short film Candle was supposed to be public in youtube but has gotten private...  Time is not money, it is something that we have not make full use of... 

My life stages.... Till now

Every few years i would ponder on which direction / stages of life that i am in and i would like to achieve... This year is especially thought provoking... Having experienced these stages: 1) after studies, work /career 2) money money and money 3) family is all important 4) without health, all the above are nothingness... Soul searching led to TIME... Most of us have went thru the many life stages but have we given ourself TIME? Quote from CANDLE short film... Time is like a candle's flame, it is the minutes that we are burning... It is time to allocate YOUR TIME not others... Have you planned for it? How much time is left?