Be Emotion-less to achieve more compassion
Paradox as it seems. I am convinced by logic. Reason with me and if it is reasonable, I will adhere. On the flipside, I will be the impatient and angry guy if I know that other party is clearly wrong or has no reason to do what he/she did. I clearly remembered a Phuket Trip with my big family including my bros and sis. We were occupying 3 tables inside a boat trip and it was supposed to bring us to different islands. After the first island hopping, when we were back to the boat, I saw a Chinese family occupying our seats. Our kids' water bottles were clearly on the table. They simply ignored it. After a long wait, they are not willing to bulge. My elder bro asked them nicely (as we are squeezing to 2 tables) but was totally ignored. I got so heated up. Raising my voice and asking them if they were blind. Words exchanged and the situation almost got into a fight. One of the Chinese guy said "妈的!" (Literally means mother) but is a bit of swearing in Chinese c...