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Energy for 2 Jul 2025 (Wednesday)

Positive energy:  - catching up with an old fren and was able to advise 😌  - asking for sabbatical leave and getting ready to leave work.  Negative energy: - fml. Why does life always have to make it harder when u made up your mind? - how lost can I be? Why did I flare up? Quote: you have to be firm sometimes to get things done.  

Gratitudes for 05 May 2025

1. Enjoy my lunch on Xiang Xiang Hunan Cuisine 2. Able to take a good walk in the morning before rain at ECP. 3. Finally completed Netflix My Mister. Simply love it.  4. Non disturb day from work. 5. I survived the giddiness and rested. 6. Able to eat, sleep and not worry at $$$. 7. Get to have a dinner nearby without driving. 8. Friends that encourage me to stay strong. 9. My eldest is coming back soon. Yay. 10. Enjoying the relationships of everyone that cared for me.  Life is really simple, b ut we insist on making it complicated ~ Confucius

To the 60 years old me in Y2034

To that still walking, cycling, gaming and travelling 60-year old man in Y2034, I hoped:- You had stopped that full time job.  You had completed 'The Master Key System' and imparted it. You had at least tried backpacking around the regions. Buy good shoes! You had taken the longest train ride from Singapore to Portugal.  You had visited Taj Mahal and Great Wall of China. That's my childhood dream on wonders of the world. You had cycled at least once around our Singapore island.  You had worked out both physically and mentally daily like your dad. Show me your routine table!  You had became that travel companion of those in needs.  You had found sponsors to fund your interests. You had became that super copycat that helps people to grow better.  You found love.  And maintain my motto: Let no one comes to you without leaving better.  Stay healthy with abundant love and wealth.  Don't eat that much carb! br, Your present self from 2025.  St...

Buddha is not god, Buddhism is not a religion

Buddha is Prince Siddhartha. He wasn't a god, he (to be blunt) found a way to be rid of the material stuff and end all impermanence. He was teaching the students how to achieve it so that we are free from pain and this material world. Nothing last forever, even if you are rich or poor, intelligent or dumb, fast or slow, etc.  A lot of Buddhists thought that believing or praying to Him will help to cleanse their bad doings or debts. The hard truth is that He can't. He is no God, he doesn't take all our sins and ensure you will go to heaven and not hell. See Him as a teacher, like any school subject teacher. He teaches way of life, how to be compassionate and loving, how helping others bring lasting happiness. Nothing to do with race, religion, status or intellilect in this life or next lifetime (if there is).   I do not believe in religion. But I like Buddhism way of life.  Again, it brought back to my topic on Capitalism, dividing the world into countries, not sharin...

Chat GPT makes tech redundant

Openai, the company behind ChatGPT, an AI chatbot in beta (as this article is written).  I simply love it. Makes my job must easiest with those admin or general research, basic EDM, templates. How I wish the launched version will help in ppt, spreadsheets creation. Luckily it still cannot search on personal info. But what if it can?  The beta version is already a glimpse for many redundant jobs. Clerical stuff, admin work, document creation, process flow, these will be the yesteryears in few years time. What we can develop is soft skills and love?  But what if ChatGPT learnt about human? The flaw in us, the lies we do, the inhumane acts we did to Earth and our pursuit to become GOD.  If ChatGPT is programmed to protect Earth, the first race to extinction: Homo Sapiens.  An impossible scenario you may think but ... For now, enjoy ChatGPT to help in your productivity. Give more love and make an effort for Mother Earth. It is not limitless. 

Capitalism, climate disaster, love and ego are stemed from us

We decide who we love (& hate). We perceive what is luxury and expensive.  We think that winning is always the end. We think we rule Mother Earth.  The only fact is that we are ruled by money and science but not love. We don't have the love and compassion towards one another, towards other living beings, towards the very Earth we lived in.  If we don't stop war and destroying this very place we lived in, (mainly govt initiatives) we are destined to see our own civilization extinct.  All matters are connected, every actions count. 

Demand vs request

A relationship requires the joint effort of two parties to maintain... Where is the trust if u need to constantly check on each other? At some point of the day, we need personal time, some required lesser time, some more. It doesnt mean that they need to do something... I will just sit and do some soul searching... You can call it daydream... Read this book recently, 5love languages... Every relationship whether it is with family, friends, couple should come with request, not demand... When u make a request, u give respect and confidence to other parties... When u make a demand out of the relationship, the other party's love jar is always empty.... No one likes to be commanded even between boss and staff... Practice making requests, and you can see yourself being happy when others are happy...