job, family, education and country (CHOOSE)

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which is MOST important? getting a good job, setting up a family, giving your kids' good education or staying in a country that is safe and secured.

my order of importance:
1) family
2) country
3) education
4) job

that's easy, but what if you are only allowed to choose 3 AND FORGO THE LAST OPTION?!
i will have to forgo country's security...still a tough decision.

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